Anxiety problem. He calls or message.

Hi I am 3 Years married with 1 and half year girl baby. I had problems in my married life after 6 months itself. We both try to put each other down always. My husband has premature ejaculation problem and because of that we used to fight very always. I used to love him but I was not liking him on bed. Then to save my relation I compromised and decided to be happy with what I have. But for some or other reason we kept on fighting. Recently for job purpose I shifted to Bangalore and he is Hyderabad. Now he started for complaining all small small and past things. So once I got angry which not only affected my health but also I felt this is not the way. Then I decided not to fight with him & be calm on whatever he says. But now the situation has arise where whenever I see his call or msg My heart beat gets faster and I start getting heart pain. giddiness, breathing problem starts at least for 30 min. I visited normal doctor and everything is fine but I get it only when he calls or message.