Behavioral issues. Can it be treated?

I have some issues relating my behavior during face to face discussion with male or female, if meeting with a female age no matter she start to cover her body specially  breast and sides of abdomen and feel irritating after a 2 minutes discussion with me, because of my stary look, and if I am meeting with a male they start to  check his tie buttons and zip is open or not and feel like that I am a homo, but I am not at all, this is a kind phobia. I am always in trouble in discussion, so what is the issue with me, is it a personality disorder, behavior problems, my confidence gets zero in front of a male, they are taking me as homo, in case of a female they take me as a bad character person. So what is problem with me and can it be treated