Clarity Of Thought. The decisions!

Dear consultant I am a healthy person with responsibility of my old parents and grown up children. I generally avoid decision making times and feel good to divert myself from stress. In the inner thoughts I know that delaying the decisions regarding important aspects will not do any betterment but it will lead to adding burden and stress later on. I long for stability and affluent lifestyle.   I have handled the family business for last 20 years but now it is not doing good. The income from this is negligible. Family suggests me to do any salaried job which I keep on looking for but has not succeeded yet. Everyday starts as a new hope of getting some good opportunity for goal setting and some concrete solution. Family's suggestions do not appeal me and my own thoughts are very unclear and do not lead to any satisfactory mechanism. Please analyse and suggest some remedies so that I keep myself in tune with family aspirations and suggestions. No other medical and general problems.