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Depression not able to decide what to do
I am 23 year old. My name is William R.  I need psychologist help. I am in depression for six months .  Could I consult a psychologist online. I have some relationship issue. I got engaged 3 year back . I am  studying in MA , JNU New Delhi. My fiancee has PCOD illness and has obesity. After knowing about illness I got anxious and depressed and not willing to marry. So please help me to overcome this situation and depression.... I couldn't study due to this depression that what to do.  And not able to decide what to do ...To marry her ...Or end the relationship. As PCOD is an incurable disease so I depressed and unwilling to marry. We Both belongs to village background and traditional family. Help me how to handle this situation n depression... That how will I tell my parents about this and how to the girl. Please
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Hello . I can imagine that you are in a tricky situation. Though PCOD is not a terminal disease , you may have your own reasons to not marry . You can opt for online consultation or a chat consultation. I'm willing to help if you wish .
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Think twice before you take any decision . Consult a professional for help to avoid any occurrence that can create guilt in your mind
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Your distress is evident. However, you need to understand facts. These days, lot of girls have pcod. But they get married and have children too. You need to examine the actual source of your distress. Is your distress stemming from the fact that your fiancee has pcod or the conclusion you have drawn and the disastrous future you have imagined that is increasing your distress? Before you imagine bad scenarios in your mind, visit a gynaecologist along with your girlfriend and get your doubts cleared. It is inappropriate to judge your to-be partner on basis of something that can be treated / managed. Pcod is not a life threatening disease. It is a condition that can be easily managed with the help of a gynaecologist and lifestyle management. You'll soon realise that your reason for distress was unfounded! Hope this relieves some of your tension. Good luck 👍
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