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Im recently married for 2 months and I knew my Husband for last 5 years although it was a long distance relationship. The marriage is an inter state affair for which we took time to ease down our families. Now that I'm married, my in laws are extremely good to me when I was living with them . I shifted to noida recently to live with my husband for our jobs which i always wanted from last 5 years. Now that my wish is fulfilled , it's being difficult to stay with him. No doubt he loves and does all his responsibility but once he's agitated he finishes everything. He was short tempered before too and now every now n then he speaks of divorce whenever we fight. He hits me and never let things go. He holds on to our small fights for a week and behaves irrationally. He had been taking anti depressants few years bk for his career n family but stopped within a month. He hyper reacts and starts crying whenever he fights with parents. He makes me feel low to the maximum
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. His symptoms are sign of stress or depression. Sometimes stress is not just only an emotional issues , it may be caused even by body conditions like excess heat, acidity, digestion issues, headaches, food habits, alcoholic etc. As you know about his background and history , try for this 2 options.
1. When he is in normal mood, Convince him to go for psychologists consultation to address this emotional outburst and stress.
2. If he is not ready, then you better get consulted yourself to learn and understand how to manage him stress through few home remedies, lifestyle changes, dietary change etc to bring down his stress level. In parallel, you also need counseling to feel strong to handle yourself in such suitations.
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I feel your husband needs help and as you mentioned the past history of medication for depression. Maybe be needs them again. If he is diagnosed as depressed and is put on medication the extreme behaviours may ease out.
I fully understand how it must be feeling to you right now. It is difficult to live with a person having such extreme behaviours. As much as it is difficult for you you will still need to show compassion towards him.
You yourself need to see a psychologist to sort out your feelings.
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Please help your husband to see a psychiatrist asap.
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Please see a psychologist for yourself you cannot ignore yourself at all.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
The Anger issues can be resolved by Consulting a psychologist.
Also, I would. Like to suggest you both to consult a psychologist cum Marriage Counselor for more clarity and understanding about yourself
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Ms. Juhi Parashar
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Gurgaon
Hii
I completely understand your sorrow
I feel he is having relapse and again showing signs of depression
Psychiatric medicine has a course If you don't complete that chances of relapse is there
He needs help. Get him evaluated by a psychiatrist and start his medication afresh
Consult with me for counseling and behavior management
All the best
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