How to make my wife understand reality.

My wife is behaving unreasonable,we choose each other for marriage, she liked to marry so we got married now she wants a divorce now she is not ready to listen to her own family ,reason she thinks is everyone controls her , her dad especially, she wants do what she wants to do but that is not happening, she wants to be in film industry for which nobody is agreeing, she doesn't respect her family, she hates to be a girl, she doesn't wants to be a mother , she doesn't want this marriage as she thinks it is controlling her , she gets triggered for smallest things and becomes angry , she will fight with everyone, she is not ready forgive anyone , she doesn't want to work hard , she wants house to be clean but she tells why she should clean she always complains about anything and everything, she listens to nobody , if someone tries to convince her to tell what is life she disconnects and argues with them ,all she wants is divorce and stay alone ,she doesn't want to stay with her parents.