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My husband is having a serious anger problem. When he is angry he is just out of control, he breaks things, tears away things, starts using slang languages. Affection, compromise, sacrifice these words are just not there in his life.. But the strange things is, I and my parents are The only one with whom he behaves so badly, rest with everyone else he is very calm and affectionate. Its takes him near about 7-8 days to talk with me after we have a fight.. This is becoming unbearable for me. I want to save this relation not only because I still love him,but also because he is the father of my daughter.. Please help..
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We need to talk in detail about his behaviour and reason behind it. I am an online counselor and you can get in touch with me through Practo. Happy to help ! Do visit my Facebook page and my website mentioned on it to know my work.
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Dear mam
I can imagine it must be quite tough for you.
Have you tried to talk to him about your concerns?
Try to reach out to him in calm manner and talk about how you hurt you feel by his behavior. Talk to him and encourage him to take help for his anger issues. If he is reluctant to go for himself, you can gently suggest marriage counseling where both of your issues can be resolved. He might need an evaluation to rule out mental health problems.
Please seek help from a professional.
I understand all this can be quite difficult for you too. Please talk to your friends and family about how you are feeling and seek professional help if needed.
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Behaviors with anger, frustration, short tempered, irritation, harsh words etc are expression or outburst of stress in your mind. Sometimes body condition also play a role in increasing stress like excess body heat, blood pressure acidity, food type, habits etc.
So it need a holistic approach of understanding both psychological and physical angle to identify the root cause. Be positive. He would need a stress management solution to address both the issues. If he not co operative to come for a consultation, then as a partner you can do your part at home to bring down his anger through different therapies and daily routine or few lifestyle changes, dietary changes etc.
Feel free to reach me online for further evaluation and to understand the different solution to overcome this problem. Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I think, this has reason behind this behavior of your Husband
I suggest you both to consult a psychologist cum Marriage Counselor.
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Ms. Juhi Parashar
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Gurgaon
I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling
Connect with me through practo
Follow my Facebook page "the Cloud Door" for mental health issues
All the best
Seek help for early recovery
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Dr. Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Psychiatrist
35 yrs exp
Jaipur
You need to talk to him . May be he is trying to hide some of his weakness . You may take the help of a psychiatrist as well
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Dr. Shreyans Patil
Addiction Psychiatrist
7 yrs exp
Kolhapur
Needs to consult a psychiatrist
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