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I love my husband but we have no sex lif
I married my teenage best friend.. knew him for about 12 years before marriage.. was in a romantic relationship with him for 10 years before marriage.. we love each other like crazy
3.5 years of marriage have gone by but our sex life is extremely poor.. sex is not only low in frequency (once a month max) its also not very enjoyable... he tries a lot to make it nice but i feel everything is like a rulebook he is following..
There is no heat no passion in that.. he cares for me a lot but as if am his child not wife! Therefore sex also is lukewarm and weird i feel..
Slowly i have stopped getting attracted and i watch porn to satisfy myself.. but i find myself dreaming of having proper sex..
We have spoken on this a lot.. he just ends up trying all the more which doesn't feel very natural.. he doesn't experiment at all.. he hates to think of oral sex or anything fun... just routine rulebook sex.. I don't like it.. i have never had sex with anyone else in life.. but i know this isn't
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Hello. This is very normal. U lose spark after some time with the same person. Anything same done again and again is boring, so is sex. Life becomes boring due to boring sex. If he is not open to experimenting, u do it. Why expecting him to do everything? U can buy sexy lingerie, some bdsm stuff, tie him up or can do role play too. U anyway imagine somebody else everytime u want an orgasm so do it with ur own husband. If he likes it, he l support u too. Even if he doesn't like it, he loves u so will support u.
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take proper counselling for this
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Better consult a sex counsellor for better assessment of the problem
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Dr. Sanjay Jain
Psychiatrist
19 yrs exp
Jaipur
It seems your husband may have low Sexual desire or some psychosexual problem. It could be due to some physical, hormonal problem as well. Need to know some details about it to finally reach on any conclusion. Consult a psychiatrist who also deal in sexual problems or me for better understanding about problem and to find out the solution which may be medication or counseling which will be decided based on problem.
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