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New mom feeling depressed n forced
I live wit my hubBy & bro in law in blore.my in laws staying in a remote village near Mangalore they are also conservative n blind beliefs.me & my parents put a condition before marriage that I wouldnt be staying with in-laws at such remote place for many days for which they agreed.my family is in city n liberal.whenever I go to in laws on my office leave they make me work like maid. For ex. Cooking for many people like 25-30 people.even I don't get proper food. after my pregnancy my parents came to blore to take care of me. As per tradition I came to my native for baby shower and after delivery maternity leave.my baby is 1.5 month now. My husband is forcing me to go to in laws house after some days saying you have to stay there as it is he's parents house.n their house in in such remote area where no facility like medical, hospital. Not even mobile network on emergency.i feel I have been forced to agree that I belong to them after marriage.i dunno how to deal with this.
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You seem to be under lot of stress and anxious about the future consequences, ask yourself what is bothering you more whether place or people and what is more important now in this situation, make a list of pros and cons of being in the situation suggested by your husband, you might find your way out of dillema
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Ms. Juhi Parashar
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Gurgaon
Hi
I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques
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Mr. Vigraanth Bapu KG
Clinical Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Bangalore
Glad that you brought up the issue here to get an solution. The best way to handle this situation is to explain to your husband about your decision to stay back in Bangalore in a way that he understands that it's more than the people that the place is what your not happy about. For further help you can get in touch with me through Practo Chat
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