One sided love. And end up with me.

I'm in love with a 26 yr old guy who's dealing with breakup right now. His ex-gf is now married.Its been more than a year since they broke up but still he is crazy her n says he still loves her, misses her and she haunts him in dreams daily. Me n him work in same office n became frnds 8 months back.In few months we became close, more than friends. Like he was very possessive abt me and we used to have chats and calls where things were sexual. But nothing happened in real. We have expressed all in texts n calls.He used to say he  likes spending time with me and he even loves me but he is not ready for a relationship and he cant love anyone like her.Now he says different things like Im not important to him and he has no feelings for me because he has been through enough in the past. We are still friends bt not as close as before .No initimate stuffs and possessiveness. I wanna know what he feels for me and is there any chance for him to come out of her thoughts and end up with me.