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I am an graduate and now I am undergoing training at Bangalore for the purpose of job. I really love a guy who isn't from my caste.Big problem is somehow my parents came to know about it and now the have stopped my studies they want me get married to someone of our caste.I am totally trapped in home I want to get out but not allowed.help please.
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You are 21 years old and can take decisions of your life.  But how sure are you about that boy whom you love and how serious is he to have you in his life. Are you guys truly in love or just an attraction, first analyse that part. Parents do have responsibility to get their daughter married and give her safe and secured life.  However understanding your feelings and expectations are also equally important. This is a catch 22 situation. If The boy is genuine, he should talk to his parents and take further steps to meet your parents. Caste is not a criteria for happy marriage. Talk to your parents and convince them, if your love is genuine and serious. Dont take any hasty decision. Marriage must bring two families together and not just 2 individuals
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Hi.reading ur statement i can understand your stress. You also need to understand reality of life. You love a guy. That's ok. But studies and career is more important. Talk to parents that you want to continue ur studies. First you must get a job. Dont spoil ur name . Always parents will do good things for u. You must not cry. Dont feel that your trapped or locked inside. Think positively. Your parents will not be that bad. You should learn to stand in your legs first. You can get counselling from online or directly to get more stronger and come out of Ur problems.
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