Very unlikeness towards laws family.

Hello dear , As per your description,it seems that you are facing difficulty in accepting in-laws THE WAY THEY ARE. And to have such a kind of unconditional acceptance it takes time and it comes step by step.  As u  r able to deal with your relatives , the same way u r able to deal with your in-laws . The only difference is your  perception looking at them and expectation or demand u may be imposing on yourself or on them. As u r the NEWMEMBER in the family ,others are already acclimated to the surrounding situation. The CHALLENGE is to absorb and adsorb in the new family. The marriage is not only between two person , however it's between two family's nurturing two different value system. Hence it may happen that if a particular thing is acceptable in your parents house it may not be acceptable in your in-laws family or vise versa. So traditions customs virtue values all will be different. And u know very well these are all made by humans. I trust you, as every female who gets married face such kind of issues in their life and gradually they come out of it. And they gain trust , commitment and love from their partners. Most important, remember the opposite person lived many years together so they can trust each other very easily. U r new comer, so naturally u need to give some time. All the best. Keep patience. Have positive attitude . And of course different perception.