I understand you might be feeling lonely and betrayed by life and it's circumstances, I can sense that you want to be loved by your husband and it frustrates you when he doesn't priorities you being his wife. It must have been very hard on you. It will be good if you work on yourself and gain the self confidence which you require first and then decide on the future solution about marriage rather than rushing on a drastic change in life when your not feeling very good about yourself.

It's completely your call as to what you want to do. Just think if a woman with same problem came to you for advice what would you say? You will get the answer Separation requires a lot more. Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Talk it out all the best

Yes, it is difficult to accept such unexpected changes in life. Yet, I want you to consult a psychologist for more understanding.

Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. First you need to figure out  reasons for your short tempered nature. Generally short temper, anger, frustration, irritation etc are expression or outburst of stress. Similarly body condition like excess heat, menstrual issues, acidity etc also can trigger stress. So it's better to analyze your reason for stress and address it. Secondly, you  need to analyze the reason behind the gap in your relationship with your husband. Suggest you to take a marriage counseling to address both this problem.

  First assess urself for aatypical depression, After that will plan for treatment I [Dr Arjit Gaurav, MBBS DPM(Psychiatry), Consultant psychiatrist & sexologist] Can help u if u agree

Please visit counsellor Thanks