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Anger, negetive thinking
Hi, I gets angry on small things. If my husband does not do as per my expectations i will get angry and my think negetive about him. Immediately i will think of getting separated from him. I got married 2 years before. Me and my husband are totally opposit person. When i get angry i starts to cry cursing my husband and marriage. Am becoming emotionally weak day by day. I cant tolerate a small change in my husbands decision. I always feel insecured, lonely.
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It seems to be relationship induced stress disorder. You need to improve your thought process, perception and behavior simultaneously. You need to be emotional intelligent. Learn to enjoy the differences, because each individual is different. It can only be treated with counseling sessions and some customized therapies.
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To have healthy relationship with our partner first we need to have healthy relationship with self. Your anger and stress can be harmful to you. The inner turmoil and confusion is turning into aggression, it can be resolved with therapy. visit any nearby counselor for help
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Hi, It seems so much of stress, frustration and depression. Sadness and loneliness make it more negative. But in every relationship there is always a chance for a fresh new start and it’s very much possible . Counselling can help you to deal with this in a perfect way.
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Book online session with me, it will help to understand your situations and it will provide you the right way to handle it. Be positive, have believe in you, don’t feel bad about it… You can make it the way you want. Do book a online counselling session.
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Hi, Always have mutual expectations on each other. Express to him what you expect from him n check if it’s too much or too less .. Try to come up with reasons (healthy reasons ) to stay together. Tame ur anger by taking anger management sessions.. Go to the roots of your insecurities .. Most of the time our insecurities are not because of opposite person’s behaviour but because of our own personality.
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Try taking therapy sessions for long term results..
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The symptoms that you are sharing could also be caused due to an underlying physical illnes like blood pressure, or vitamin deficiencies. I would suggest you get yourself checked one before making a conclusion about it being a psychological problem of anger and dissatisfaction with your relationship. Because all of this also depends on the duration of this feeling of anger. I mean was it always like this for you?
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If it is a psychological/relationship problem the only solution you have is to give couples therapy a try. because it is important to understand the underlying causes for feelings of anger, insecurity, and loneliness that you are feeling in this relationship. 
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There is a need for a proper diagnosis of the problem, it is always important to cross check for underlying physical problems before concluding it to be a psychological problem. 
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Hi.. Your repressed issues & insecurities are taking an expression in the form of anger and emotional burnout. Issues in your marital relationship are more like a trigger and not the source. It is because of the proximity that it is coming out in this manner. If this is the case, you need counselling using psychoanalytic approach. To deal with your marital relationship you alone or both of you may seek marital counselling or couple therapy. Lot of young couples do take therapy to resolve issues in their relationship and experience a fulfilling relationship.
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Consult a Psychologist. CBT along with Lifestyle Guidance and Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Hi..too much negativity and stress..you definetly need counseling to resolve the conflicts for better mental health. You have taken first step towards it which is half the battle won. Call me at seven eight nine two seven zero five four seven seven... .session will be of fifty minutes. cost three hundred fifty only. whatz app @seven zero two  six six six two six six four
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