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Hi. I hv filled divorced against my husband and as i am financially not stable and nor do i hv mother and father i hv to gv my sons custody to his father 😥i just cant stay away from my son but as his father is financially stable i m leaving him and going. How do i make myself stable
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Hi. I wish there was a way I could tell u that it’s going be easy or it will be ok soon. But the fact is that parting with ur flesh n blood is going to hurt and maybe that pain will always be in ur heart to some extent.
Yes u will move on and become independent gradually. These things can’t happen overnight. U can take small steps towards making urself financially independent which will eventually give u more self confidence and the support ur looking from urself.
And when we get there we can look for ways to nurture ur son in some ways that satisfy u emotionally. Huggs to u dear.
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First make yourself financially stable. Communicate clearly what made you to file divorce case. Sort your problems & understand what makes you to take the decision. I would suggest to open communication between both partners. Consult with me via practo.
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You are already going through a lot and above that leaving your child must be very tough.if you are educated please find a job or work as per your skill at the earliest.have faith even this shall pass.
Apart from this your husband is liable to give you financial help as per law which can be explained better by a lawyer,I believe a child below 18 years cannot be seperate from his mother.please consult a lawyer and stay strong.please don't leave your child he needs you,in times when parents undergo seperation the child is already very weak emotionally please look after that
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Dr. Charanya
Psychologist
12 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Wellness Greetings to you..
Gather yourself, this is not the time to feel down or cannot afford to feel hopeless. Definitely a mother has more factors to have child's custody than a father because A child Needs mother is always than a father in their early childhood. Be confident that you are gonna win this. Don't feed your fears. Set priorities and work on it one by one. Don't try to juggle all the balls at once.
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you can reach me here if you feel like needing any guidance . The world out is full of opportunities too.. We perceive and receive. So focus on positive things..
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Ms. Chellam Narendiran
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10 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Hi,
Understand your emotional pain and financial struggle. Try to sort of the things one by one and take support of your well wishers. Try to get a job and engage in a productive work. Speak to a lawyer to understand more about alimony and child's custody. There are lot of options available in the court of law.
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Speak to a lawyer and psychologist to get a real picture and legal support.
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(1) Do your homework before meeting a lawyer or speak with your husband (2) Find a job to start somewhere and then gradually upgrade your skills (3) Spend a quality time with your son and find out the possibilities to give him a better life.
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