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Sexual issues with wife
Hi doctors I'm 25 year old. I'm in India and My wife is in Uk right now. Our marriage was a love marriage. Actually my problem is I'm not satisfied in my sexual life. She have not interested in Sexting. When we are in relationship,at that time also she was interested in sexting. Real sex is not happen because we are in long distance right now. Then how can I satisfy with sexual pleasures??? Can you help me to figure out this.
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Physical intimacy is also as important as other factors but there are certain exceptional situation like yours.In this kind of condition one has to identify the common areas of concern because physical intimacy could be anything and through anyway you can resolve .But try to look into broader sense and discuss everything crossing your mind and body discuss with your wife in a straight and transparent manner and listen to her also.
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Discuss,share and listen carefully if you want to resolve and move ahead in personal life
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Try to engage yourself in the activities you enjoy most apart from your current issue.
If find it difficult or getting affected then connect with psychologist and discuss.
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Seek counseling sessions to overcome the problem.
You need an expert counseling psychologist.
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you can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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Hi, Consult a psychologist.
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The way you feel is normal and so do for your partner as well. So I would suggest not to blame the other partner and try figuring out what could be the reason. In most cases it would be due to stress or over exhaustion from work.
Try attending counseling together, Relationship counseling would be better. As you both are in different countries it would be difficult to go see a counselor together. There are therapists who provide counseling through video calls.
Take a step to find a solution which will work for both of you.
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1. Try talking to the other partner to know if she is in stress Or depression due to work.
2. Try making normal romantic talks rather than intimate talks.
3. Long distance relationships are difficult and what so the reason for that, supports each other.
4. Try respecting each other for what they are.
Always keep in mind that any problems need to be resolved and there is no point in only talking about the problem.
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Connect with psychologist to resolve inner conflicts
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Ms. Simran Sharma
Psychologist
1 yrs exp
Kolkata
I understand that being in a long-distance relationship can present challenges, especially in terms of sexual intimacy. It's important to communicate openly with your wife about your feelings and desires. Discuss your concerns and try to understand her perspective as well. While physical closeness may not be possible due to the distance, there are other ways to maintain intimacy, such as having regular video calls, sharing fantasies, or exploring creative ways to connect emotionally. If the issue persists, consider seeking the guidance of a relationship counselor or therapist who can provide support and help both of you navigate this aspect of your relationship.
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Dr. Priyanka (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Delhi
First find out the issue that if she was interested in sexting during courtship period then why not now?
And due to long distance issue real sex is not possible. Now there is one question arising that is only this is the issue in between you or some other issues are also there.
If only sexual pleasure is an issue and you want to stay in this marriage than you can use sex toys..
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If you are getting frustrated due to this then consult a sex therapist.
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