I fell in love with girl. We broke up 3 years ago & thatreak-up was on text msgs. She didn't met me. And i was left confused. I had another relationship after her but even that didn't worked.Now first girlfriend she came back in my life, as she came to know i had a accident so. We were talking like friends on chat and oneday i forced her to meet me up. We met and she answered me everything. She told me she don't have any feelings for me. Now i have decided to move on but i am missing her badly.
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It must have been a real difficult situation for you having two break-ups. Isn't it! Since your friend has explicitly expressed that she has no feelings; it is your call to work on yourself and let go of her from your life. It would be better to be loved than just to love as love is a feeling that has to be reciprocal and not one-way. There are possibilities that you are not meeting her expectations (maybe emotional or materialistic), she could have given you second chance before she said that she has no feelings. Expectations and true love are poles apart.
As she has moved ahead in her life, you too should work on the same.
You mentioned that you are 23 years old, I am sure that you must also be striving hard with your studies or career (whatever you are doing); work on your priorities stabilize yourself that builds your confidence and self-esteem. Do a self-assessment, why both relationships failed. It may not be worth again doing the same mistake of getting into relationship and feeling dejected.
Consult a Counsellor who can help you do a self-assessment and who can empower to handle the situations more amicably.
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