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Behavior of my brother towards studies
Not inclined towards career goals, studies. Rather interested in mobile, games. When family tries to guide him, the attitude is very bad and does not follow anything.
When we try to take his mobile away he shouts and fights with family. Many people have tried to make him understand the importance of studying but it's of no use. Day by day instead if seeing minute improvement we are just seeing more negative side of him. He is in 12th and it's important for him to atleast pass, even passing marks are fine. But instead of trying he has started Missing his exams and hiding things of school from Family. He loves hanging out with friends. We have tried different ways to understand him but he says he does not like studies. With love, with strictness we have tried everything. Now we are in a situation of losing all hopes. His practical exams have started and boards are after 1 month. He is not deprived of any thing. Has a good mentor for studies. Goes out with friends to hang out.Plz help.
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Hi. Its important to know his own career goals. Don't put pressure from outside rather let him decide his choices. Ask him about hobbies which may serve as significant career. Allow him to drop a year and take exam in fresh mind. Too much pressure isn't healthy for an adolescent. Give him freedom
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alternative career goals to be chosen from favorite hobbies
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He needs psychological special guidance and psychological counseling services with psychological autosuggestion therapy through the online or offline process for three weeks without any medication for the removal of his psychological problems of attitude change you can contact me for this on practo website thank you
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Ms. Seema Jathar
Counselling Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Pune
Hello I appreciate your concern towards your brother. I understand it's a difficult phase to deal with. You can take help of a psychologist who will understand first why he is behaving in a certain way and can help him understand his consequences of his behaviour. He is grown up and he knows what you expect from him but still he is not doing that. There has to be something behind this behaviour which he probably is not telling you. Psychologists intervention will help him. You can take my appointment through practo app.
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