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I have been having issues to self please. Off lately I've been trying to do so.. but I end up crying or end up feeling blues. I don't know what to do about it.
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Hello Friend, Thank you for reaching out here for help.  When your mind is emotional distributed obviously nothing will satisfy you. As body and mind are closely interconnected such disturbance can also impact the physical health conditions.  So, first figure out what's causing such disturbance.  It could be any past worries or fear about future/career or stress or about current work or studies tension or , relationships issues etc. Be positive.  Take a  professional help from us through counseling sessions to understand the root cause behind such disturbance.  Definitely you can overcome this problem through many solutions like mindset change techniques, relaxation techniques,exercise routine, dietary changes, few lifestyle changes etc. Feel free to reach me online for further assistance.  Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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I understand your predicament and would like to make a few suggestions that might help you. I want you to know that with awareness of how the mind works and how thoughts are generated, you will get better at dealing with them. Today, the mind is fixated on something. Tomorrow it could be obsessed about another person/event/topic. Understanding the nature of the mind and how thoughts are generated will help you deal with them. The nature of the Mind, which in simple terms we experience as thoughts, is such that, it will keep shifting its focus from one object/topic/event to another. Ii always needs something to hold on to. Another important characteristic of the Mind is this - You will either have thoughts about the past or the future. This will keep alternating. Try thinking about the present moment - you will see that the Mind and 'Now' can never coexist. The Mind has 3 states in general. Sometimes, you may find yourself having very positive, inspiring thoughts. During other times, you may find yourself very emotional, or all charged for action. Whereas during other times, you may feel very lethargic, dull or lazy. These states will keep alternating. Having understood the nature of the mind, the first step towards mental health is to become aware of your thoughts. Learning to be an observer of your thoughts, learning to observe them from a distance like clouds passing in the sky. The next step is knowing that you have the power to choose which thought you wish to focus on and act on and exercising that power. With practice, you will have better mastery over this process. Having negative thoughts is something that plagues everybody from time to time. Trust me, even if everything was perfect, you will still find some shortcomings somewhere and brood about it. Tension or anxiety is a physiological response which is again part of being human. It is normal to have such thoughts about any situation. As mentioned above, with practice, you will learn to focus and entertain only those thoughts are healthy enough to be acted upon. Whenever you feel overwhelmed by thoughts, just bring your focus back to your breath and take a few relaxing breaths. You will automatically be able to focus on the task at hand and do what is required. Whatever you feed your mind through your sense organs will be replayed to you as thoughts. Be conscious of this. Take care of the content you feed your mind - the kind of books you read, the websites you visit, the kind of music you listen to, the kind of food you eat, the kind of company you keep ( "You are an average of five people you spend most of your time with" ) Ask yourself : Where would I like to see myself ten years from now? What should I do today to reach there ten years from now? What would I do if I knew I wouldn't fail? What would I do if I weren't afraid? No matter how impossible the answers might seem, I want you to know that you can and will make them possible. Take the first step. The rest will follow. A beautiful future awaits you. Take ownership of every time, take responsibility for it and confidently work towards your dreams and aspirations. One day you will thank these dark moments for being the fuel for your success. Set aside time for exercise daily and make sure you eat healthy. Have faith in yourself. You are capable of dealing with this. You are going to do just fine. Take care.
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I appreciate that you are aware about your feelings and taking care of it by approaching help from professionals, Remember "Never give your happiness keys on someone else hand because it's always ends up with hurting", try to work on your Self-esteem, Self-love and gratitude for your own self is very important, Take help from Meditation and Mindfulness, also watch some Motivational Videos to divert your mind into Positivity, If you still feel how to ahead with it than I suggest you to consult with Psychologist to help you this.
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Practice self love and gratitude towards yourself. Take help from Mindfulness and Meditation Also watch Motivational Videos to divert your mind into Positivity.
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Whats self please Please explain and discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional it will really help you Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online or in person All the best
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