Loneliness and fear. Is our my mind?

what do you exactly fear about? How long has it been going on? Are there any triggering factors that lead to this fear or do you experience any other symptoms during that time like palpitations, sweating, increased heart beat or anything else?

i would suggest you to consult a counselling psychologist for your complaints and be open and truthful with them.

meanwhile eat healthy, do some brisk exercises everyday, try to share your problem with family/friends if you can.

Over thinking can create fear within u. It can be altered into negative to positive thoughts. Positive thinking gives u strength and confidence. Negative thinking gives insecurity, fear. Further exploration is needed to help u consult online via practo.

Thanks for reaching out for help. Fear of things or situations is a normal feeling that we all face. However, how much we let it control our mind is important. If you feel you are disturbed too much because of it, please take an online appointment with me or any counselling psychologist who can help you deal with it.

Talk to a specialist who can also use alternative techniques like NLP or hypnotherapy to help you overcome your fear and overthinking. I am a trained NLP therapist and hypnotherapist who has guided many such clients to progress.

Do not let other things dilute your focus on this issue. It needs immediate attention and you will surely find a solution if you are willing to believe in yourself

It seems you are too distressed about something about yourself or about certain circumstances.

Write down your thoughts (boty positive and negative). Identify the fears lurking inside by spending time with yourself.

The idea is to live comfortably inspite of the fears instead of focusing on completely removing them. Feel free to reach out to a psychologist for help.

Hello thanks for your approach, Yes I understand due the external crisis and previous issues could be bothering you.. please understand the reason for your overthinking, what is it that you expect.. the unfulfilled of desires could cause overthinking, anxious and insecurity. It is that you may have to work on thought and emotions..

please take the help of therapist to explore your self and cope with situation. take care and stay safe.

Here are a few suggestions that could be helpful. Kindly read what follows : The nature of the Mind, which in simple terms we experience as thoughts, is such that, it will keep shifting its focus from one object/topic/event to another. Today the mind might be fixated on something. Tomorrow it could be another topic/event/person. Another important characteristic of the Mind is this - You may either have thoughts about the past or the future. Try thinking about the present moment - you will see that you cannot have thoughts about the present moment. The Mind has 3 states in general. Sometimes, you may find yourself having very positive, inspiring thoughts. During other times, you may find yourself very emotional, or all charged for action. Whereas during other times, you may feel very lethargic, dull or lazy. These states may keep alternating. Having understood the nature of the mind, the first step towards mental health is to become aware of your thoughts. Learning to be an observer of your thoughts, learning to observe them from a distance like clouds passing in the sky. Just like how the clothes you are wearing right now are yours, but not you, thoughts that you experience from time to time are yours, but not you. The next step is knowing that you have the power to choose which thought you wish to focus on and act on and exercising that power. With practice, you will have better mastery over this process. When you repeatedly focus on a thought, say, a fearful thought, and identify with it, believing it to be true, the corresponding emotion ( in this case, fear ) rises in your brain. It overpowers your capability to think rationally. The cycle repeats and hence you feel imprisoned by your own thoughts and emotions. As mentioned above, with practice, you will learn to focus and entertain only those thoughts that are healthy enough to be acted upon. Usually when we experience disturbing, anxiety provoking thoughts, we may tend to fight, resist or control them. Again, fighting a thought is like fighting a shadow. You can see it, but it's not real. Fighting a thought or emotion only gives it more power. Say, for instance, when someone asks you not to think of a pink elephant, the first thought that invariably comes to you is that of a pink elephant. Instead, what we can do is, learning to be a distant observer of thoughts ( that are only based on past experiences and hence are no longer true or relevant today or do not serve your highest good ) and not identify with them or act on them. Whenever you feel overwhelmed by thoughts, try bringing your focus back to your breath. Here is a breathing exercise that could help you : You may do this in the night too once you have finished with your tasks for the day : Inhale slowly to a count of four - hold your breath to a count of four - exhale slowly to a count of eight. Repeat this ten times. You may do this also in the morning before you begin your daily routine. Gently massage the back of your neck and the base of the skull when you lie down to rest. Whatever you feed your mind through your sense organs will be replayed to you as thoughts. Be conscious of this. Take care of the content you feed your mind - the kind of books you read, the websites you visit, the kind of music you listen to, the kind of food you eat, the kind of company you keep ( "You are an average of five people you spend most of your time with" ) Our attitude towards life in general and things in particular is based on our Beliefs - what we believe to be true about ourselves and the world. What are your core beliefs about yourself and the world? Try writing them down and examine the validity of these beliefs. Some of them may be limiting and negative in nature because of the kind of feedback you received while growing up - at home, in school, from your classmates, friends, relatives, etc. But once you are aware of them, you shed light on them,examine their truth, they can no longer manipulate your behavior or actions. As your beliefs change, your attitude changes, and words, actions and behavior follow. One of the definitions of stress is the thought(s) or the belief that you don't have the capability and the resources to address, to deal with, to successfully overcome the challenge(s) that is right in front of you now. Consider the components of this equation - On one end you have the object that induces this belief in you ( it might be a person/event/situation ). Reflect on the possible sources of stress for you. Is there anything you can do to change this side of the equation? On the other end, you have your resources to tackle it - reflect on whether you have done all you can to prepare for it/address it/ do justice to it. The next time you experience a disturbing thought or emotion, observe the thoughts and sensations knowing that they are going to pass like a wave ebbs and falls. Without judging them as threatening. Gradually they will reduce in impact and frequency. Please set aside time for exercise daily and make sure you eat healthy every time. Our challenges that seem to threaten our very existence are the ones that serve as fuel for our evolution. 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Fear comes when you think about future and expect something bad to happen.. Focus on living in this moment today.. Studies is important. Have career goals and work for it..

Keep your self busy in activities.. Good luck