Want to know someone loves truly or not?

Decisions regarding relationships are always difficult. Nobody would want to let away the opportunity of being in a great relationship .But  sometimes there is this little voice in your head that doesn’t give you the green signal to go ahead . Now, this little voice could be the result of lack of trust (probably from bitter experiences in the past) it could be because of anxiety etc Unfortunately we will never really know if another person’s love for us is true. The definition of Love, the perception of love, is different for different people. What you can do is to dissect the voice and understand if the voice that’s stopping you is because there is something amiss about the person you would want to commit to or is the voice a reflection of your own insecurities and issues.

Try to introspect and see if you can find answers within you. If you have a friend or someone who knows you quite well, you can take their support. Better still would be to consult a Psychologist, they would be able to help you dissect the voice and help you know yourself better ! Take care. Best wishes!

I understand your predicament and would like to make a few suggestions that might help you. I want you to know that with awareness of how the mind works and how thoughts are generated, you will get better at dealing with them and thereby help you have clarity about doing what is right in the present situation. I want you to know that once you are capable of making the right decision. Kindly read what follows : Today, the mind is fixated on something. Tomorrow it could be obsessed about another person/event/topic. Understanding the nature of the mind and how thoughts are generated will help you deal with them. The nature of the Mind, which in simple terms we experience as thoughts, is such that, it will keep shifting its focus from one object/topic/event to another. Ii always needs something to hold on to. Another important characteristic of the Mind is this - You will either have thoughts about the past or the future. This will keep alternating. Try thinking about the present moment - you will see that the Mind and 'Now' can never coexist. The Mind has 3 states in general. Sometimes, you may find yourself having very positive, inspiring thoughts. During other times, you may find yourself very emotional, or all charged for action. Whereas during other times, you may feel very lethargic, dull or lazy. These states will keep alternating. Having understood the nature of the mind, the first step towards mental health is to become aware of your thoughts. Learning to be an observer of your thoughts, learning to observe them from a distance like clouds passing in the sky. The next step is knowing that you have the power to choose which thought you wish to focus on and act on and exercising that power. With practice, you will have better mastery over this process. Having negative thoughts is something that plagues everybody from time to time. Trust me, even if everything was perfect, you will still find some shortcomings somewhere and brood about it. Tension or anxiety is a physiological response which is again part of being human. It is normal to have such thoughts about any situation. As mentioned above, with practice, you will learn to focus and entertain only those thoughts are healthy enough to be acted upon. Whenever you feel overwhelmed by thoughts, just bring your focus back to your breath and take a few relaxing breaths. You will automatically be able to focus on the task at hand and do what is required. Whatever you feed your mind through your sense organs will be replayed to you as thoughts. Be conscious of this. Take care of the content you feed your mind - the kind of books you read, the websites you visit, the kind of music you listen to, the kind of food you eat, the kind of company you keep ( "You are an average of five people you spend most of your time with" ) Ask yourself : Where would I like to see myself ten years from now? What should I do today to reach there ten years from now? What would I do if I knew I wouldn't fail? What would I do if I weren't afraid? No matter how impossible the answers might seem, I want you to know that you can and will make them possible. Take the first step. The rest will follow. A beautiful future awaits you. Take ownership of every time, take responsibility for it and confidently work towards your dreams and aspirations. One day you will thank these dark moments for being the fuel for your success. Please set aside time for exercise daily and make sure you eat healthy every time. Our challenges that seem to threaten our very existence are the ones that serve as fuel for our evolution. Have faith in yourself. You are capable of dealing with this. You are going to do just fine. Take care.

Hello thanks for approaching us, It is sounding that you are in confusion with trust issues of relationship, . but in small duration it's difficult to know how the opposite person's likes and dislikes, affection. There are no particular signs , some time through communication we can understand opposite person's emotions. Assumption might spoil the whole thing, it's better know that what is opposite person's opinion through discussion. Till then it is natural that you will be unsure of trusting or committing.

you can take the help of experts to work on your emotions and trust. take care...

Hello there I appreciate for reaching out for help. From where I can see at what you have mentioned you have faced trust issues in your life earlier. Commitment is a big thing, if you are feeling insecure and confused, I suggest you take an individual session to have a clarity about your thoughts as well as about this relation. You can connect to me through this app for appointment.